Do RSVP to the event with the number in your party. Don't assume they know you're coming, they don't hence the RSVP. Do show up on time or notify the host/hostess that you're running late. Don't show up fashionably late and disrupt a good party flow, the party shouldn't stop for you. Do bring the host/hostess a nice bottle of wine, flowers or scented candle. Don't show up empty handed. They took time to make a special night for everyone, show them your appreciation. Do hang u

In preparation for my own holiday party I thought some dos and don'ts instead of a DIY project would be more useful during this hectic time of shopping and gets togethers. Do send out invites 2-4 weeks ahead of time with a request for RSVP including how to do so. Don't wait until last minute and get disappointed when nobody turns up. Do speak to your neighbors before the party and keep their home, driveway & privacy in consideration. Don't forget to explain to guests where it